Welcome to the depression forum. It sounds like you need some self esteem and it sounds like your boyfriend is insecure too. If he is putting these demands on you now, it will probably only get worse. It sounds like the relationship revolves around him. Which isn't right for you.
You shouldn't be a doormat. I was too. But as you get older, you stop taking other people's crap. I don't like conflict either and avoid it as much as possible. But that doesn't mean that you should be treated badly because you don't speak up for yourself.
Maybe get some self help books on how to be more assertive. Everybody has that right. Also some books on self esteem. Once you gain that you might think twice about getting married. It doesn't sound like he is very mature or treats you right. Just my opinion of what I have read.
I hope that things work out for you. Again, welcome to the forum.
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