don't know who i am!!

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Date Joined Apr 2011
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   Posted 4/6/2011 11:59 AM (GMT -6)   
Hello all i am new to this website and i really need someone to talk to! I am currenctly seeking a counselor, but i couldn't wait any longer i just need to chat with someone. I am very depressed because my husband told me that he wants to devorce me if i don't change. Let me tell you a bit about myself. I don't know why but i am a very angry person, i get angry at the most smallest things! I am always angry at my husband and at my 5 yr old daughter i just fuss so much for no reason and i complain for everything. Also i am a smart A** i talk back a lot! I don't know why i am the way that i am i try to control it but it just comes out the way that it does!! ANYONE!!

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Date Joined Sep 2007
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   Posted 4/6/2011 2:41 PM (GMT -6)   
Hi there,

And welcome to the forum. I don't know why you are angry, but you acknowledge it and are seeking counseling, so you are headed in the right direction. Just acknowledging it is a huge step. And once you do that you can move farther and take steps to changing your behavior.

I am glad that you posted here. I think coming here is going to help you a lot. But keep persueing the counseling, it really helps a lot. I go and many of us here go also.

Keep posting and let us know how things are going.

As for knowing who you are, I think that comes with age and experiencing things. Even the bad things build character. So don't worry about that, we all feel that way at one time or another.

Hugs, Karen
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New Member

Date Joined Apr 2011
Total Posts : 5
   Posted 4/6/2011 3:20 PM (GMT -6)   
thank you so much for your reply, that means alot to me.

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Date Joined Mar 2009
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   Posted 4/6/2011 7:21 PM (GMT -6)   
therapy is helping me. i beleive it will you as well. with compassion, jamie. i write my feelings down, this will help you new counsellor to better understand your situation. i walk, even though it is painful to do so. walking deviates my mind. writing stuff down gets it out of your head a bit. try it. with much healing compassion, jamie


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Date Joined Aug 2010
Total Posts : 262
   Posted 4/6/2011 9:59 PM (GMT -6)   
I don't think that i can tell you why you are the way you are. But you are taking the first step toward recovery, seeking help. Hopefully you can get to the bottom of your anger and figure out how to deal with it. I"m glad you are getting some help.
When the only tool you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail.

with your past and your future precisely divided, Am I at that moment?. . I haven't decided.
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