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netball
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   Posted 4/12/2011 1:15 PM (GMT -6)   
hi, i am new to the forum. i am 13 years old and i have been feeling really down. i dont feel like hanging out with my fiends and i dont know how to tell them that and they keep asking me if im ok. i feel like iscolating myself from the world. im feeling so sad and i often find myself crying over little things. when will this end and how can i get it to stop because i hate feeling thid way !!
plz help me !

Geosojda
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   Posted 4/12/2011 1:57 PM (GMT -6)   
hi netball, welcome to HW! We are glad to have you here, it sounds like you are experiencing some depression right now. Have you told anyone about whats going on? Its very hard to open up to anyone about this but it is the first step to feeling better. Can you talk to a school concelor? Thats a good place to start if you don't want to talk to your parents. You can feel better, its takes some work but you can do it. Let us know how things are going
When the only tool you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail.

with your past and your future precisely divided, Am I at that moment?. . I haven't decided.

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   Posted 4/12/2011 2:02 PM (GMT -6)   
Hi Netball,

I agree. Talk to a school counselor or a trusted friend. You need not carry this burden alone. A problem shared is a problem halved, or something like that.

There are a lot of teens your age with depression like you have. So don't feel all alone. And try not to isolate yourself. Is there one friend that you can trust to talk to? They might be going through the same thing. Keep on fighting. And keep posting.

Hugs, Karen
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netball
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   Posted 4/12/2011 11:53 PM (GMT -6)   
i have been referred onto a school councillor by my close friend because she was really worried about me.. i dont like to think of myself being depressed but i just wanna be happy.. it seems really hard to at the moment to though.. i have told my close friend how i feel and she just said ''im here for you''.. it made me feel good but i just still feel like crap.. im going to start the councelling next term.. i dont know if it will help but fingers crossed it will !
thnx for your reply..
will keep you posted on what going on..

theHTreturns...
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   Posted 4/13/2011 5:03 AM (GMT -6)   
i am studying and am in therapy. best move i made. keep strong netball. jamie here for you. with compassion to you.
SCHIZO-AFFECTIVE DISORDER, EMOTIONALLY UNSTABLE PERSONALITY DISORDER, BORDERLINE TYPE -AXIS 2 , BI-POLAR AFFECTIVE DISORDER AXIS 1

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Geosojda
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   Posted 4/13/2011 6:40 AM (GMT -6)   
Glad you are getting some help, its tough letting people know whats going on but it really will help to get into councelling. And it sounds like you have a good support system there, also a great asset
When the only tool you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail.

with your past and your future precisely divided, Am I at that moment?. . I haven't decided.

netball
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   Posted 4/13/2011 10:05 PM (GMT -6)   
i have not yet seen my councillor and to be honest, i dont know how i will cope with telling her bout myself but its what is best for me apparently so i have to talk to her really..

theHTreturns...
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   Posted 4/13/2011 10:43 PM (GMT -6)   
you will do fine. that 1st appt is the hardest, but the pressure will come off your shoulders. keep strong netball, jamie
SCHIZO-AFFECTIVE DISORDER, EMOTIONALLY UNSTABLE PERSONALITY DISORDER, BORDERLINE TYPE -AXIS 2 , BI-POLAR AFFECTIVE DISORDER AXIS 1

REMEMBER TO LOVE YOU. BE YOU AND BE TRUE.

Geosojda
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   Posted 4/14/2011 6:47 AM (GMT -6)   
right on jamiee, the first apt is the hardest.  Its tough to let someone in that you really don't know, but once you can trust them and let them in they can really help.  Keep us posted wink

netball
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   Posted 4/14/2011 1:14 PM (GMT -6)   
thnx guys, i will keep you posted about how it goes. it'll be weird and maybe a lil akwadr telling a stranger my life and issues but like you say it's only the first apt that will be really hard.. ill try and open up as much as i can and i'll see how that goes (:

theHTreturns...
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   Posted 4/14/2011 9:38 PM (GMT -6)   
good, good netball. see you on the forum soon. take care, jamie
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Faunts
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   Posted 4/15/2011 3:38 AM (GMT -6)   
Hey Netball,

remember you are not the only one who feels like that. I had an issue of not opening up and bottled it up since 13 until I was 18-19. So you did an excellent job by saying something. Be proud of it.

Nobody will judge you or say anything bad about you :)

Oh and by the way welcome to the forum x
"I need you to recover . 'Cause I can't make it on my own!" - Faunts

CourtneyEinharjar
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   Posted 4/15/2011 4:48 PM (GMT -6)   
I really need help. I have this guilt...need to tell everybody everything feeling/ especially I think it's becaus I'm not on medication for depression.

Post Edited By Moderator (getting by) : 4/15/2011 5:03:16 PM (GMT-6)


getting by
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   Posted 4/15/2011 5:10 PM (GMT -6)   
CourtneyEnharjar,

I am so sorry but I had to edit your popst because I thought it was inappropriate for our younger viewers. We have young adults as young as 13 on here, I don't know how old you are.

I am really concerned for you. Do not act on your feelings, but rather talk to a counselor about it. This isn't something that you want to have happen. I wish I had some resources for you right now. But I really think you have some issues and you need to talk to a counselor. There could be many reasons for your feelings. Is this something that is going on in your head, or is he doing something that would cause you to think of this. I know that we can't discuss it, but you can answer without mentioning what you are feeling. Like I say, I am very concerned for you at this time.

If there are any other issues going on, feel free to talk about it, though we can't discuss self harm or suicide. Not that you would but I wanted to let you know that it was a rule.

I think medication is an option also. Though counseling would really help you. But I think you need somebody professional and objective at this point. How old are you? Are you still in school? What is your home life like? Do you have siblings? I am curious. Because with these thoughts that you are having, they just could be fantasy, ot it could be something deeper.



Hugs, Karen
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Post Edited (getting by) : 4/15/2011 5:13:52 PM (GMT-6)


CourtneyEinharjar
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   Posted 4/15/2011 5:14 PM (GMT -6)   
I am 14 in 8th grade. Me And parents argue alot and all it's me like guilty thoughts and I don't know why I want to tell him when I know I can't it's just hormonal thoughts

getting by
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   Posted 4/15/2011 5:19 PM (GMT -6)   
You really need a distraction. Do you have a boyfriend? Is there anything at school that interests you? I suggest seeing a school counselor though I would like you to see a professional counselor. Talk to somebody. You really need some help right now.

Why do you argue with your parents? Is it rules, or what? I really want you to talk to somebody. I want to see you get better. You should be interested in boys your age. And stuff at school. Do you have any girlfriends that you could talk to that you can trust?

Hugs, Karen
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CourtneyEinharjar
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   Posted 4/15/2011 5:23 PM (GMT -6)   
Yes I have a boyfriend...we argue over temporary things....social studies and reading are an interest for me in school and we are going on spring break for a week now we don't go back until April 26 so I don't really have a distraction and I need one and I have one true friend but I have no way to contact her

CourtneyEinharjar
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   Posted 4/15/2011 5:40 PM (GMT -6)   
Me and my boyfriend get along very well and all but this feeling gets in the way, me and my parents don't get along. But what should I do to get rid of the feelin except for telling him

getting by
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   Posted 4/15/2011 6:23 PM (GMT -6)   
The best that I can advise you is to see a therapist. A school counselor could help you. We can't discuss this here. I am sorry. It isn't appropriate for this forum, I Have really discussed more than I already should have because I am worried about you. Please see your school counselor.

Hugs, Karen
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