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netball
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Date Joined Apr 2011
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   Posted 4/17/2011 2:11 PM (GMT -6)   
hi, i posted on this forum a couple of weeks ago and i have not really felt any better. now that its the holidays, i have to go away with my mum to the mount. i hate going down there with her cuz we really do not get along. i feel so sad as well cuz we have been arguing alot and she is saying that im ''selfish'' and ''ungrateful'' and has even called me a b****!
i feel really unworthy when she tells me this and i just cried. she is always insulting me and accusing me of doing things that i havent done ! life with her is just complete hell and im over it ! i dont know what to do anyomre ! i cant go to my councillor at school cuz its the break.. i really dont know what to do to try and ease the hate between us because i really am over it all !

getting by
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Date Joined Sep 2007
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   Posted 4/17/2011 4:03 PM (GMT -6)   
Since you are going to be stuck with her, I would suggest you try to overlook her comments and try to get along with her. Life for parents can be hard at times. And I think that the stress gets to them. Maybe the vacation will relax her and you will both have a good time. Do your best to ignore the comments and try not to say anything back. Just have a good time. That is the trick of it. Enjoy yourself and don't let her get to you. You have the power to not react to her comments. It is actually a matter of choice. The less you react, the harder it will be for her to get to you. You can do this. Have fun!!!

Hugs Karen
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