i may loose my best friend!!!!! what do i do?????? help me:(

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want_peace
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   Posted 4/24/2011 1:25 AM (GMT -6)   
i am a 21 yr old gal.. my best friend and i are really close.. i feel very protective of her and always look out for her..she had a guy friend who was i love with her and obsessd wit her . wen he was around my friend used to ignore me.. i was very lonely then.. he always tried to come in between me and her.. they fought and stopped talking for 2 years..nw they have patched up..i don trust his intentions.i am scared where she will again ignore me.. i have expressd my worries to her and she has assured me tat evrthng wil be the same betweeen her n me.. but i don feel so..i feel reaaly depressd abt this.. she is my onli friend with whom i have shared evrythng. all is not well in my family.. i feel ignored evrywhere.. she was my onli support.. if she again ignores me i will be devastated and wont be able to cope up.. i wanna feel strong and independant.. i dono how..i have mixed feelings about this.. anyone who has similar problems please post here so tat we ca chat about it...

want_peace
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   Posted 4/24/2011 1:36 AM (GMT -6)   
please help me out... please..i don wanna be ignored here also

theHTreturns...
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   Posted 4/24/2011 2:50 AM (GMT -6)   
sounds like you do not beleive her that she will not ignore you? maybe you need to give it time to see what actually happens. it sux being ignored. yes keep strong want_peace. sending healings your way. jamie. i know what it is like to be ignored-so i just keep doing my own thing.
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want_peace
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   Posted 4/24/2011 2:58 AM (GMT -6)   
a couple of months back they startd speaking to each other again.. and i noticd tat she used to ignore me..make me wait alone while she spoke to him.. then things fell apart and they didn speak for a month or so..now things a are goig to be the same as before. coz tat guy has askd my frend to hang out with her ... i jus cant seem to get this anxiety out of my mind

Lizzie Collin
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   Posted 4/24/2011 3:49 PM (GMT -6)   
maybe you should just be very open with her about your feelings. i have had the same problem as you.
i advise that you tell herhow much she means to you and how you feel and i'm sure she will at least try to change things so that you do not feel this way anymore, good luck

want_peace
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   Posted 4/25/2011 10:32 AM (GMT -6)   
hey lizzie thank u so much for ur concern.. i did tell her how i feel about her.. i have expressed to the max extent i could. ..i am really freakin out now cause they speak to each other evryday over phone for like an hour or so.. i really hope i don loose her.. i jus feel soooo helpless.. i am really losin it.. i have tests from thursday and i am not able to concentrate:(:(

theHTreturns...
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   Posted 4/26/2011 2:13 AM (GMT -6)   
try to calm your mind some. you need to be calm for your tests. wishing you well with them. with compassion, jamie
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want_peace
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   Posted 5/2/2011 10:21 AM (GMT -6)   
i am losing her jamie.. i m losing her.. the same things are happening again an i jus cant stop crying.. i am goig to loose her and be alone alone.. she was the oli way for me.. i feell so angry i jus cant do this.. i am too depressd.. i jus cant stop crying..wat do i do:(:(

getting by
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   Posted 5/2/2011 5:44 PM (GMT -6)   
It is hard when we have a close friend and then things change. But know that you are going to have other friends through out your life. They come and they go. I think you have to accept that she may get on with her life in a different path than you. I think you should try some counseling or some self help so that you don't feel so lonely in life. Learn to love yourself for who you are and you become your own best friend. It is hard, I know, but you can do this.

Keep posting and know that we are her for you.

Take care want_peace.

Hugs, Karen
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