I would just really like a person to offer advise
My best friend's name is ian and we have been best friends for years. We've always been there for eachother and we shared everything. I've never been closer to anybody my entire life. A few months ago ian and I told eachother that we had romantic feelings. this soon developed into a physical relationship. The confusing part is that we were never actually together. after a few weeks i was absolutely in love with his kindness, and the way we cared for me and was always telling me how he loved me. ian got with his girlfriend olivia when these emotional feelings were developing but at that time ian had never cheated on olivia. ollivia has cheated on ian several times and the only reason i'm sure of this is because the guys she cheated with are my very close male friends. ian was aware of this cheating but he kept forgiving her. after a while they broke up and ian and i became physical, he told me he had feelings for me and i was crazy about him. after a while a new girl came into ians life, jasmine. ian told me that he thought he had feelings for me but really didnt. i was very hurt by him but i vlaued his friendship so much that i could not let things end between us. still ian never cheated on his girlfriend. i still had feelings for him, but nothing happened between us other than the usual friendship. when jasmine and ian broke up, once again, an emotional and physical relationship developed between ian and i. and when he started dating olivia again... it continued and still does. ian always tells me how much he loves me and would never want to hurt me, he calls me pet names, we talk 24/7 and we've been so close that my feelings for him are so powerful. a few days ago i was texting my friend austin for advise and all of the sudden guess who replys? HIS GIRLFRIEND who has told people that ian and i have a thing without even knowing tat we do. she was the reason ian and i stopped talking for over a month his second relationship with olivia started. I texted ian right away to let him know that she knew a lot about what was going on between us and then he stopped texting me, has been ignoring my texts and various calls. at first i thought he got his phone, cell phone, and laptop taken away but hes been using his phone to post on facebook today yet he continues to ignore me. i am now left without my best friend who i am absoultely in love with and care about very much, and i have no idea why he is ignoring me this way because he hasn't told me. last time we spoke things were great but now after the insident with austin, hes ignoring me 100%. I just hope that austins girlfriend didnt have anything to do with it and will keep a secret. i also lost a very good friend of mine, austin who always supported me. i feel comfused, angry, betrayed, sad, lonely, lost, comfused and in love. please help!