I have no idea how to handle this?

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TinkerbellLovesHim
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   Posted 5/1/2011 3:38 PM (GMT -6)   
Lately i've been having feelings for an older guy. And when he says things like, "Dont tell anyone." or "Come by around 2 in the morning?" It makes me feel as if he is embarrassed by me? Possibly even ashamed. And honestly it doesnt seem like he cares about me at all.. he only focuses on sex pretty much. And its not like thats not okay? But what if i want more... and my friend Tony shared that he likes me yet he's in love with Brittani and wont get over her. What was the point in that? I dont wanna be anyone's 2nd choice. I wanna be number 1. Yet...everytime i like someone im always number 2. Someone is always better than me. And do they care how that makes me feel? NO. What do i do? Is love a lie? Someone please answer me.
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   Posted 5/1/2011 3:59 PM (GMT -6)   
No love is not a lie, but it sounds like you are getting used by this older man. He may even have a girlfriend and doesn't want you two there at the same time. He could be embarrassed because he is so much older than you, but it sounds to me like you are choosing the wrong people. Wait for somebody who really does care about you. You should be treated much better than you are being treated by this guy. I think he is using you for sex. Please stop seeing this man.

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   Posted 5/1/2011 6:11 PM (GMT -6)   
karen makes sense. jamie.
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