Is it healthy to continue living under the same roof as your spouse during a separation. My feeling to this as very emotional, expecially when she spends the night at his place and cannot understande why this upset me.
She says there is no reason for me to be upset, since she has decided to move on.
I feel a lot of depression, and at times find myself lurking in the darkest of thoughts, not towards her, but towards myself.
I guess I just answered my own question. But is there an answer to helping me cope. I have no place to go, and still feel obligated to support her in the home we intended to spend our lives in. It's difficult after a life of just 25 years together, being alone. I know there are other in my situation, but now lack the self exteem to find them. Feeling scared, frustrated and worst of all, the friend I had, ar mostly hers, which translates into me not being able to approach them.
I don't know wher to turn.