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   Posted 5/17/2011 4:27 PM (GMT -6)   
shakehead  i had another argument with my partner on friday and he told me that he wants me to move out. this morning he was cuddled up to me in bed then this evening he took me to look at houses i feel very confused i to have had enough of the arguing and i do get angry very easily its just through frustration it has been a hard few years and i have needed his support as i have supported him i just get frustrated and shout then he calls me a phsycho i just want to cry all the time i feel broken and iam going to loose my best friend there is nothing i can do to fix this. i deserve to be alone confused

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   Posted 5/17/2011 5:31 PM (GMT -6)   
Hi StopTired,

I can understand your frustration with him changing his attitude all the time. You are getting mixed messages and that isn't fair. Ask him point blank what is going on. And if he is going to threaten to kick you out everytime you have an argument, you might be better off leaving. When you went to look at houses, was it for just you or the two of you. I find this all rather confusing, no wonder you are mixed up. And no, you don't deserve to be alone. But you might be better off alone. Then things are more on your terms. Don't let anybody make you feel insecure or try to run your life.

Hugs, Karen
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   Posted 5/17/2011 8:38 PM (GMT -6)   
Go and seek out counseling and then ask him your partner if he'd go to
counseling with you together, seems like you could both use this to maybe work things
out, maybe he's having some problems that need to be worked thru. I
wish you both the best and please seek out counseling...well wishes and
keep us posted...
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