3 year engagment broken, i'm numb...

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meganforeverxo
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   Posted 5/20/2011 10:39 AM (GMT -6)   
cry i just cant even think. i know ive been so sick. i have a list of chronic illness. my fiance and i had been together for three years, i had gotten sick in september last year. its hard without him here, all his things are gone. he wont talk to me. hides away from me when i tried to go talk to him. i feel so lost and naive. im still young but i feel like no one will ever love a sick person like me. my fiance got with me before i was sick... and now we are no more. we got in a little fight about nothing. i was like, leave, like always, just leave if youre going to be mean, not even a big fight or anything, he got all his things and slammed the door. that was the last time i saw him... i guess its my fault... but if he truely wanted to be with me hed never just leave... im just depressed even more than ever now... life will go on but im just distraught.

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   Posted 5/20/2011 12:34 PM (GMT -6)   
Things will get better Megan, You will meet somebody new. This maybe wasn't meant to be. I am sorry.

Hugs, Karen
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Serenitee
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   Posted 5/20/2011 2:05 PM (GMT -6)   
Megan,
If it was meant to be, it will work out. Otherwise work on yourself, trusting and loving yourself. I know its a difficult time and if your anything like me I take everything an internalize things. I met this guy when i was inpatient, and when we got out my husband thought something was going on between me and this other guy. So he kicked me out of the house, and I had absolutely no where to go, so this guy friend allowed me to stat with him which was a motel. Needless to say, I fell in love with him. Just 3-months with him, as I am now back home with husband and kids, however, I cannot forget this other guy. I have no clue where he is now, if he is alive or what. I love my husband and I wish the thoughts of this other guy would just disappear.

Give it a little time and see how things are going. Remember we are hear for you completely. My email is: . Would love to chat with you if you need someone to just vent.

Blessings 2 U,
Your Healingwell Friend,
Serenitee

Post Edited By Moderator (getting by) : 5/20/2011 1:21:58 PM (GMT-6)


getting by
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   Posted 5/20/2011 2:21 PM (GMT -6)   
Hi Serenitee,

It isn't safe to post your email on the open forum. It is in your profile so I am going to take it out of your post. Just for your own safety. Anybody can read it here, but only members can see it in your profile. Thanks for understanding, I am just looking out for you.

Hugs, Karen
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Serenitee
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   Posted 5/20/2011 2:30 PM (GMT -6)   
Karen,

Hugz 2 you and thank you for doing that. I'm fairly new still on this site, I guess a little too trusting. But Again, Thank-U.

Hope U have a great day! :)

Serenitee

meganforeverxo
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   Posted 5/20/2011 3:01 PM (GMT -6)   
he emptied my bank account stole alot of my things. i guess its better this way.
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Serenitee
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   Posted 5/20/2011 3:12 PM (GMT -6)   
Megan... I am so so so very sorry he did that. That is absolutely horrible. Do you have anyone that is there for you to talk with and vent? Family or friends? How long ago was it that he moved out?

Sorry for all the questions, its none of my business. Wishing things get better.
Serenitee

getting by
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   Posted 5/20/2011 4:42 PM (GMT -6)   
Megan,

You are better off without him. You have learned a very valuable lesson. And I Know that it hurts, but this is all part of growing and learning limitations. I am sure that you aren't going to let the next guy anywhere near your bank account. At least he didn't put you into debt. That does happen. You are learning and you are living. This is all a part of growing up. I know that it doesn't seem so good right now, but later on you will see the lesson. And I always believe that even bad things have a purpose. Something good will eventually come out of this. Even if it is just learning.

I hope that you cheer up soon. Try to forget him and move on. There is a lot more to life than losers. And he is a loser. And I gaurentee you his day will come. What comes around goes around. He will know how he has made you feel. Now shake it off and get on to something else in life. Know that you are a wonderful person. Those are the ones that tend to get hurt. But you are special in your own right. You will be blessed.

Hugs, Karen

PS If you want to know Serenitee's email, just click on her name in front of her post. That will take you to her profile, I removed it from her post because it isn't safe to post your email address. Either that or click on the blue envelope in front of her post and that will hook you up. Hugs...
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Serenitee
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   Posted 5/20/2011 5:01 PM (GMT -6)   
Thanks again Karen
Loop ileostomy May 10th 2011, Bipolar 2/ Borderline, Anxiety/Panic-Attacks, Major Depression, DDA-Dual Diagnosis...Recovering Addict/Alcoholic. 9 years-clean from Meth and 8 months sober.
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