Borderline personality disorder

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Date Joined Mar 2005
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   Posted 3/15/2005 5:25 PM (GMT -6)   

Ok, well I guess I blew it with my latest try at a relationship. And it only took me 3 weeks this time. I think that’s my new record. It’s one that I am not proud of, of course. Boy, I’ve gotten better at scaring people off. She won’t even return my calls now. And she accused me of driving by her house several times this past weekend. Which I have not done, but apparently the car looked like mine, but I swear, it wasn’t me. I haven’t been to her house since she last invited me.


So does anyone here know about Borderline Personality Disorders (BPD)? I know I shouldn’t self-diagnose, but so far from what I’ve read, I fit all of the criteria, almost to a T.  Instability in self-image, mood, behavior and close personal relationships. Marked and frequent shifts to an empty lonely depression or to irritability and anxiety. It's all Me me me!


I'm looking into getting back into therapy, but having a little trouble finding one "In Network" for my insurance and someone taking on new clients. darn, finding help should not leave you needing more help. I’m at my wits end here.
Melli - "It's my belief we all secretly ask ourselves at one time or another, "Am I crazy?" In my case, the answer came back a resounding "Yes".

Charlie 2
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Date Joined Oct 2004
Total Posts : 138
   Posted 3/15/2005 6:35 PM (GMT -6)   
Hi, i've just looked at some websites on Borderline Personality Disorder. I think that this could apply to anyone with depression really. The symptoms are quite general and as i read through them i realised that many of them applied to me to.

It's important not to self diagnose yourself, see a doctor. Relationships always have ups and downs, and maybe the one you've just had wasn't right for you. But you have to be positive. Forget the last realtionships and concentrate on the future. You can't do anything about the past, but you can make tomorrow better than today.

So be postive. I know it's extremely difficult. I find the best thing to do is turn on a really good C.D, it helps me loads. Oh, and smile!!!!!!!!

Good luck.
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