I would forgive her for the children's sake. I do agree that the 150.00 for the hottub was a good deal and she shouldn't have squabbled about that. But that sounds like her personality. When she does something nice for you, she shouldn't expect anything in return. But there we go again, that is the way that she is. If you can accept that, that would be good. Nobody is perfect. I would tell my parents that she is allowed to see the twins as she is their granmother. But don't let it get out of hand. Keep things on your terms to be fair to all. What I mean really is don't let her run you, or take advantage of the situation. But let her see them. I think forgiveness is the best. Let it go. Don't worry about what you didn't get to say. Put it behind you, but keep an eye on her and her antics.
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