If she is going through emotional cleansing, she is making progress. Getting rid of whatever is bothering her. I think you are wise on waiting to text her. Maybe right before her appointment, you could wish her luck or let her know that you are still thinking of her. You are doing very good with restraint. That is good. I know it is hard. Yes, men tend to want to fix things, and I think that you are right. She has to do this for herself. You are very understanding. I am sure that is of comfort to her. And knowing that you are waiting for her must be comforting too. It sounds like she has a lot of healing to do. But I think she is doing it. She maybe needs to know that she is capable of taking care of the children or just taking care of her and getting stronger. Whatever it is, she is doing good. And you are doing good just being there and respecting her side of it. Just give her time. She is working on her and that is a good thing. She will be stronger and she will be there. She is doing this for you too in a way. So she can be stronger for both of you.
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