I wonder if you could talk to him about it without hurting his feelings. Or maybe you could wait a couple years until you are 18, I just don't know what would be the right thing in this situation. I didn't know my real dad. Met him once and he said "they say your mine". He ended up wanting money. lol... So I didn't see him again after that. My grandfather was my dad. But he died when I was young so it was hard not having a father figure anymore. You have a good father figure. You are lucky. I wouldn't look for my dad, but it is your choice. I was very disappointed, I hope you aren't. But if he raped your mom, I wouldn't want to see him. That is just my opinion. Best wishes with what ever you choose. Know that we are behind you.
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