I will never have him

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   Posted 6/23/2011 11:29 PM (GMT -6)   
I have liked a boy for the longest time and this year he finally asked me to a dance. We are both leaving for college and both have the same idea; not to date now because we won't see anyone once college starts. Recently I found out that he has been hanging out with and getting close to a much younger girl, and I am really hurt by this. I feel as if he is "cheating" on me even though we never went out. I care about him a lot and I go into a state of depression whenever I know he is talking to another girl. I cannot explain or control the feeling, I just become extremely upset and sad. I do not know whether or not I should risk ruining our friendship by telling him I like him or just keeping to myself and letting things fall into place. I like to believe that God knows what he is doing and everything is happening for a reason, but i need help going through this. What should I do? And what can I do to get over him?

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   Posted 6/24/2011 6:37 AM (GMT -6)   
Sounds like you are jealous because you have feelings for him. That is natural.

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   Posted 6/24/2011 10:53 AM (GMT -6)   
yes it does sound like your jealous, but why get so serious with just one person at such a young age???
it's good you have a relationship but breakups happen all the time, so you kinda
also have to prepare for those so that if it should happen you'll be okay...I hope you love college
and don't get home sick...enjoy your college life...
well wishes to you
* So many dx's I could write a book* "It would be nice if we could use the edit button in real life"...
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