I have liked a boy for the longest time and this year he finally asked me to a dance. We are both leaving for college and both have the same idea; not to date now because we won't see anyone once college starts. Recently I found out that he has been hanging out with and getting close to a much younger girl, and I am really hurt by this. I feel as if he is "cheating" on me even though we never went out. I care about him a lot and I go into a state of depression whenever I know he is talking to another girl. I cannot explain or control the feeling, I just become extremely upset and sad. I do not know whether or not I should risk ruining our friendship by telling him I like him or just keeping to myself and letting things fall into place. I like to believe that God knows what he is doing and everything is happening for a reason, but i need help going through this. What should I do? And what can I do to get over him?