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netball
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   Posted 6/29/2011 2:09 AM (GMT -6)   
me and my mum are having bif issues and it feels as if she dont love me . yet she loves her creep of a boyfriend . amd it hurts . i want her to love me but it seem impossible cuz she dont ever listen to me or give her a chance . i have tried talking to her but she will just get angry at me and shove it all back in my face . i have thought about getting an emansapation and have discussed this with two of my best mates but they both say that its a bad idea as i will regret it later on in life and because its a legal thing , ill have to go through court and get lawyers and it will be very costly . and they know me very well and do not think that i will be able to cope with the whole experience . and i do agree . however , i dont know what else i can do to try and get love from her cuz to be perfectly honest , ive had enough with all the pain and hurt she causes me to feel on a daily basis ! i feel like giving up on her . im loosing my grip and im gonna let go soon . i really dont know what to do anymore .
 
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Precious Gem
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   Posted 6/29/2011 5:50 AM (GMT -6)   
Net,

Sorry sorry you are hurting. You cannot change the way other people are or how they react. All you can do is work on yourself. Parents do not always do the right things, does not make it right though. Everyone here is compassionate and I hope someone comes along today to offer some good advice to you. Just remember to take good care of yourself and do what it takes to get yourself out of a negative environment.

Gem

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   Posted 6/29/2011 9:03 AM (GMT -6)   
Please talk to your dad about this. I think you should live with him. And I think he could stop your mum from interfering.

Just my opinion.

Hugs, Karen
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netball
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   Posted 6/30/2011 2:03 AM (GMT -6)   
karen , i have spoken to my stepmum and she is going to speak to my dad about it . i have emailed u also .

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   Posted 6/30/2011 8:39 AM (GMT -6)   
That is great. I think your dad can handle your mum. I think you would be so much happier living with your dad and stepmum. I am glad you have a good relationship with them. They love you. You need that.

Hugs, Karen

PS I wrote you back... Take care sweetie...
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