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Is there anyway that you could get her into counseling? Or to see a psychiatrist, who I am sure would recommend counseling. That would get her out and it would help her. You will probably see me recommending this a lot, but it really does help. It sounds like she needs some therapy and possibly a med change. I can see her resting up on her days off, but this sounds like it is unhealthy for her. Especially the eating part if she is deabetic.
I hope that this helps you some. I know that you feel helpless, but just being there and being concerned means a lot. Doing things with your children makes you a wonderful father and husband. I am having a time issue right now too so I can't post anymore at this time. But I am glad that I caught your post and I hope that things work out for you. Keep posting and know that we care.
Moderator-Depression and fibromyalgia
fibromyalgia, Chronic fatigue, depression, allergies