To me that is childish, though I know everybody does it. But in my opinion, he should be communicating with you some. Not every moment, but not just at bedtime either. It is annoying and it is rude. But nobody is perfect. I guess. I know you love him, but you are tolerating a lot. Especially if he is texting a woman. But at least he isn't spending time in person with her. IDK... But I keep myself pretty busy and when my husband is doing other things, I really don't miss him. But we are older too. I am just so used to being by myself. Doing my own thing I guess. I know I am no help because I don't have the answers. I guess it is all in how much you are going to put up with. When you turn 21, things are going to change. So maybe you should hang on until then. Then see what happens. I imagine that you may go out with him then.
I hope that things work out for you. You seem like such a nice person. And you are very kind and understanding. Keep posting. Let us know how things go.
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