Hello, I'm Serenitee, thought I would welcome you to The Healingwell Site. This is an amazing forum with wonderful people. I am a recovering addict/alcoholic...9-years clean from Meth and 314-days sober.
Your boyfriend is the only one that can help himself. Support from you is wonderful, however, he still needs to first admit he has a problem and then want to get sober. You don't want to enable him, but I know its hard when you love someone. Do you have co-dependence? You can suggest to him that he see someone, or try Inpatient or Outpatient Programs. They are wonderful, but you have to want to do the hard work it takes to get and stay sober.
Have you ever thought of checking into alanon? Its a support group for family or loved ones of someone that has an alcohol problem. They could really help you and give you great advice and support.
Keep us posted, and hang in there. Sending Prayers your way.
Your Healingwell Friend,