I am new to this thred. I am at my wits end. I have been with this man for 3 years. We started dating and all courtship went out the window. He was studying in medicine. I used to be so outgoing, confident, and a great hearted person! I hate this! I wish he would just snap out of this. When things are good, things are great! When they are bad they are horrible. He yells about
everything and his response is "you make me like this". He is taking his step 2 tests which is the life or death of his career...basically if he is a doctor anymore. He is drawn away from me emotionally, physically, and loving. I feel like we are roomatates, I love him with all my heart and really would like to help him, but I feel myself sinking into a depression a lot like what he is going through. He is angry all the time, he has this look of hate. He denys that anything is wrong with him. We haven't been intimate in almost a year, I asked him if things will be different when he takes his test. His response I hope so. I feel like he is a good person, just lost!!! His upbringing was he got everything that he wanted still does his family pays for everything for him. He is is 32 years old!!! His car, house, bills he says becasue he is fortunate, and he can focus on his career. I feell like he would make an awesome doctor, just is hurting me in the mean time. I feel like I need a break from him but I don't want to lose him. I feel lost, alone, and worst of all I feel like he is becoming more and more jadded. I just want to be happy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Why can't we have a great relationship? Did I mention that he comes from a family that the mother listens to what the father says, and his mom even told him that she is not in love with her husband, she loves him she isn't in love with him. My family is very touch feely and we always tell one another I love you, or encourage the other. We come from 2 completley different family backgrounds. I don't know what to do anymore. I feel like I am starting to resent him for not giving me what I need. He wont get help we went to therepy and he went a couple times, and then oned day said shes a quack! Im not goign anymore! He does try to do things for me like laundry, folding, cooking dinner- I think he is doing this stuff becasue he can't do anything else for me at this point in his life. I guess it's true what they say...you can't beat a dead horse. I know that this is somethign that I should walk away from. I just feel like I see the light once in a while!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!