Thank you for your response
I think that accepting limitations can be difficult especially if you have been trying to please people in your life or trying to get approval for a long time. I have done that for a long time and have paid the price of that. I am learning (very slowly) that I don't need to do that to be cared for but I think I must be crazy because that thought never crossed my mind until now in my 30's. I am what you would call a very late bloomer who has made some incredibly stupid decisions that I need to learn to let go.
I do hope that I will get to where you are Rosie. I'm a little insecure about even hoping for that but I want to live with truth. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.