Hi, Sorry I was not as clear as possible. My hubby and I have lived common-law for 11 years before that we were friends for about 5 years. During the entire time we have been together he has been married to her they have been married for 20 years but only lived together for less than 3 years. When I met him he was living with a different woman but that fell apart during that time we were friends and after a couple of years of him being "single" we started seeing one another differently and became a couple. The problem I have with her is she still considers herself as his wife and she invades all of our family time yet she keeps her end totally separate from us. Her father recently passed away and my hubby went to the funeral out of respect and I was asked to stay home and babysit the grandchildren. He was invited to the boys graduation services but not me and of course I have pics of them as a family, grrr.
He needs to do this divorce she has proven she won't. Then she can remarry and someone else can deal with it. I love my man but this is driving me to insanity and needs to be fixed. He has the next 2 days off I am going to see if he will file and get it done.
Insulin Dependant Diabetic, Fibromyalgia, Gerd, IBS, Sleep Apnea, COPD, Spondylolistesis, Diabetic Neuropathy, Fatty Liver, High Cholesterol