New to these forums and thank you ahead of time for reading a topic that has probably been posted before.
Day started like any other, woke up around 8 am and my wife was already at work. I text her everyday around noon just to see how works going. As usual our light conversation goes about
as it normally does, nothing new. Just so happens that I have school this night so I do not get to see her till I get home.
However when I get home I notice that her cars not in the garage so I call to see what's up, no answer. After getting into the house I notice a folded piece of paper on the bed. The note says she's sorry for doing it this way but she is unhappy and needs some time/space and that she loves me. After about
an hour or so I sent her a text saying I wanted to give her her time and that I will not call, she can call me when she's ready.
My problem is I automatically go straight to the worst possible scenario, which in turn, drives me nuts constantly unsure of what to do. She has told me in the past that she was unhappy and I attempt to make things better. We also have a fight every few months or so where she likes to bash me about
everything I've ever done wrong so not much actual talking about
the situation goes on. We have been married for about
9 months and together before that for about
I would love some advice about
what I am supposed to do in this situation as I am completely lost. Right now I am just waiting to here thinking there is someone else or that she does not want to be with me any longer.
As for our fights they usually start because she will go out drinking with her friends (which is fine) but she'll eventually not tell me anything and end up staying out all night while I'm left in the dark worried. To make that worse, when she does finally come home, she comes in and goes about
her business as if she did nothing wrong saying nothing to me. I've had to deal with many negative things with her. She's accused me of cheating on her several times once because a women left me a voice mail. She's stayed out all night and left me in the dark many times and when she goes out of town she'll call me and tell me she does not want to come back (this has happened a few times). After she does something we either fight about
it or I'll just be mad for a while and then be done with it, I do not bring it up again.
Post Edited (Goldfighter) : 7/28/2011 4:30:00 AM (GMT-6)