So I did what everyone told me not to, I let her back in...I know I'm a dumb ***. Anywho, I caught her in another little stupid lie and decided to ask her best friend for advice.
Her friend had said she would talk to me even though she didn't want to get involved, so I waited. Finally I decided to get the ball rolling and texted her friend.
She responded - "I Can't get involved, it is just not my place I'm really sorry. All I can say is if you can't trust her it will probably never work out."
Me - "I understand, it's not like I don't want to trust her it's just how can I with all that has happened...I just want to know if she's been faithful and hasn't cheated on me."
Her - "Just trust your instincts no one will know the whole story except for her."
Me - "I'm gonna lose my mind"
her - "I would feel the same way but you will be fine in the long run."
Me - "Wish things hadn't turned out this way"
Her - "I do to."
Now I haven't been in very many relationships, in fact, this is the longest one I've been in. But what her friend is basically confirming what my worst thoughts were...I think.
*edit* Her friend was present with my wife when she went out of state for her birthday when she told me she needed "space"...her ex was there to.
Post Edited (Goldfighter) : 8/28/2011 11:38:10 AM (GMT-6)