Try to hang in there until your appointment, if you can. I don't know if you are in a safe environment with him. Is there anywhere you can go until the appointment? It sounds like you are toxic to eachother.
I don't like hearing that he has hit you and been physically violent. You don't deserve this treatment. I don't know why you stay. But it sounds like you both can get violent, ie you biting him. Or were you defending yourself. If that was the case, you should have let the police know that. It sounds like he brings out the worst in you.
Are you two by any chance drinking alcohol? That can lead to these types of encounters. If so, please discuss this with the counselor. Be open and honest and tell everything that is going on. I would like to see you leave this person for the time being. I just don't know if it is possible for you or not. But you do need to learn that you don't deserve to be hit or shoved around by him. Nobody deserves that.
Keep us posted on what is going on.
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