Wont he sit down and talk to you? I wonder if some counseling is in order. Like marriage counseling. To bring down that wall between you two. It must be so frustrating when he doesn't listen to you. Are you making yourself really clear as to how serious you are with this matter? It sounds like you are doing the best that you can. If he wont go to counseling, maybe you should anyway. They can teach you how to handle the situation. I think it would be worth the try.
Take care, Keep posting.
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