How to deal with emotions-love

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Esem
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   Posted 8/8/2011 9:59 AM (GMT -6)   

I love this guy, its a bit complicated. I know it is hard for both of us, he cant commit right now due to personal circumstances. I dont want commitment from him, i just love him and want nothing in return,hard to understand the concept? Well, that's how it is tho! I love him with all my heart and just want him to be in my life. he is unsure of his situation, lots of things going on for him at the moment, just lost his mother a few weeks back, trying to cope up with his loss and his past life etc. I want him to just acknowledge I am there for him no matter what, however long it takes and I find I am unable to cope with this emotion called love! Anyone any ideas, advice, anything, it'll be much appreciated guys!

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   Posted 8/8/2011 10:09 AM (GMT -6)   
Being that this guy's mother recently died, I would give him some time. It takes awhile to deal with the grief. Let him know that you are there for him. That is the best that you can do at this time. Give him space and time to grieve.

Hugs, Karen
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Esem
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   Posted 8/8/2011 11:32 AM (GMT -6)   
Thanks Karen

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   Posted 8/8/2011 11:49 AM (GMT -6)   
I don't mean to neglect him. Let him know that you are there, but be gentle. Grief is such a hard thing. You might want to suggest grief counseling. I am sure that he cares about you. He is just hurting right now. Be available, let him know that you care.  But respect his space if he wants you to.

Hugs, Karen
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