I'm so glad that you posted again, as you have been in my thoughts. I'm sure your husband loves you very much, with going thru the hurt of the things he is aware of. I was wondering if you had thought of marriage counseling? As you had stated, you didn't get to write down the complete story. I do feel for you & your husband as well. Pleez know that if you ever want to email me & just chat my email is listed on my profile. As I know sometimes its kind of hard to put everything down here. By the way, thank you for your service. My husband served in the Army for 11-years & was wounded in Iraq. I was wondering if you could seek a therapist or counselor of some type outside of the military as they would not be connected, as I do understand your concerns.
Long story,but I did go thru a husband & another man issue last year. Married & faithful for 22-years up to that point. Anywaz, would enjoy visiting with you.
Best wishes for your family.
Your Healingwell Site,
Bipolar 2, Borderline, Anxiety/Panic Disorder, Ptsd