Hello Keira and Welcome to the forums,
As a start, you have come to the right place, you will receive alot of support from these forums.
I'm personally not the best with relationship matters, however I will throw out afew questions just to clarify afew things.
When you say your husband seems to hate you already, what is actually happening or how are you getting this feeling?
What sort of things is he making excuses about
and are there arguments on a regular basis? Also, how long has the arguing been going on for exactly? What had triggered off the very first argument after your marriage?
How long have you 2 been together before you were married?
Is there anything at all that you may suspect on why he is acting the way he is?
Considering you guys only got married just over a month ago, I would think everything would still be fresh.
It's good that you're going to College and hope everything is going well in that regard.
Keep us posted, someone with alittle more experience in this will respond shortly.
Edit PS: I truly don't see that your doing anything wrong and you don't deserve to be treated poorly on any circumstances. As I always advise people, maybe some counselling may help you 2 get back on track.
Post Edited (Crackles23) : 8/29/2011 5:52:01 PM (GMT-6)