This is not really about physical relationships, but rather about someone refusing to respect you as a person. This really has little to do with the person being male and there are plenty of females out there that are the same way, and what is really sad is these people will never know true friendship and what the real benefits are of having and being a real friend. To be quite blunt these people are small, selfish, and quite self absorbed and have a lot of growing up to do.
There are a lot of guys out there who, even though they might be physically attracted to you, will respect your beliefs and not try to push you in any way into doing something you do not want to do.
From the time I was 2 until now the majority of my closest friends have been girls, and while a few have been "friends with benefits" through 200% mutual consent the vast majority were just friends. At no time did I try to push them into doing anything they didn't want to do and at no time did they ever try to push me. We respected each other as people first, last, and always. And yes several in the group I hung out with in my teens and early 20' s did choose to wait until marriage and we all supported them 100% and in return they did not judge those of us who chose a different path.
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