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   Posted 9/11/2011 7:32 PM (GMT -6)   
Well I'm new here, and I'm kind of nervous posting , I never talk to anyone about my problems. I have just been feeling down recently, and needed to share.

I am 19 and recently I've felt empty and upset all of the time, I'm sleeping more than normal, and nothing seems to help. I feel like I'm in a rut, playing games, hanging out with friends, nothing makes me happy. Also, recently my ex asked if I would take her back, after her leaving me twice before, being how I am, I said yes, and now I have a constant worry she's going to leave me again, but I still feel like I love her. My stomach constantly hurts, and I'm just not sure what to do anymore..

Sorry for any grammar mistakes or anything I might have done wrong, and for complaining, I just can't keep everything in anymore and feel like I have nowhere else to turn.

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   Posted 9/11/2011 9:16 PM (GMT -6)   
Hi NotTooSure,

Welcome to the depression forum. I am glad that you have joined us. Learn to take each day as it comes. Try not to project into the future. You sound like you could use a little self esteem. I would suggest seeing a counselor. They help you get confidence in yourself. Maybe start with a school counselor. And if you need work your way up. I think that is the best way to access how you are actually doing.

Do you go to school or work? The reason I ask is because you are nineteen. Most people have graduated, but some go on to college. If you work on building your self esteem up, you will be able to say no to your ex when you feel you need to. You have to be responsible for your own decisions, not let other people make them for you.

I wish you well. I hope that everything works out okay.

Take care, keep posting.

Hugs, Karen
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