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stillme
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   Posted 10/2/2011 4:34 PM (GMT -6)   
Weekends tend to be difficult for me. That's the time that my ex and I would try to spend time together. I would look forward to it. So now there is nothing, not even a call or text. Which for the most part I get every day. Until the weekends. Dr says I need to stop the contact. Who is gaining from it? It sure isn't me. So, since Wednesday I allow myself one call per day. This weekend has been particularly tough. With me on the bed all day Saturday and most of the day today. I did increase my medicine to 40mg so hopefully it will kick in. The 20mg was working but then I hit a wall and went back to a very low point. How have I allowed someone else to make me feel like this? They have moved on and I'm stuck. sad

getting by
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   Posted 10/2/2011 6:38 PM (GMT -6)   
Hi Stillme,

I would say yes you have allowed somebody to cause you to feel this way. That is the only way it can happen, if you allow it. But we all do it at one time or another. So don't beat yourself up over it. You will get on with life. Hopefully the meds will help you. All relationship endings are hard. I think coming here is helping you. It gives you somebody to bounce things off of to get a more objective view about your situation. So keep moving forward. Things in your life will change, they always do. Give yourself a pat on the back. Keep trying.

Hugs, Karen
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theHTreturns...
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   Posted 10/2/2011 9:54 PM (GMT -6)   
**************HUG*************************JAMIE.
EMOTIONALLY UNSTABLE PERSONALITY DISORDER,

RAPID CYCLING BI-POLAR DISORDER

REMEMBER TO LOVE YOU. BE YOU AND BE TRUE.

stillme
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   Posted 10/3/2011 5:19 AM (GMT -6)   
Thanks Guys. Finally got up. Have to work. I would rather just go back to sleep.

theHTreturns...
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   Posted 10/3/2011 5:29 AM (GMT -6)   
have a good day. jamie.
EMOTIONALLY UNSTABLE PERSONALITY DISORDER,

RAPID CYCLING BI-POLAR DISORDER

REMEMBER TO LOVE YOU. BE YOU AND BE TRUE.

getting by
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   Posted 10/3/2011 6:46 AM (GMT -6)   
Me too, but I am up for the day. Got up at six. yucky... long day ahead of me...

Hugs, Karen
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fibromyalgia, Chronic fatigue, depression, allergies

stillme
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   Posted 10/3/2011 4:39 PM (GMT -6)   
Had an ok day. However, couldn't wait to get home and lay down. I did make it through work without crying so that is a plus. Many thanks for your much needed support.

getting by
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   Posted 10/3/2011 4:43 PM (GMT -6)   
I am glad that you had a tearfree day. I hope that this is a sign that you are starting to feel better. Keep your chin up my friend. Never give up. Get some rest and relaxation. It is your time for just you.

Hugs, Karen
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