i am email you because ive read the conversation that you and mum had, it was a bit unfair to say what you did to her.
mum has always been there for,
shes the one who has always taken you to appointments,
the one who has been been at all your sports if she couldnt make it mike was there.
Jessica mums loves you so much and cares about you so much and with what you doing its really upset and stressed everyone out.
jess when i was going thru my teenage age years i thought mum was a ***** and i always ran to james and anne blaming everything on mum but what i now relise that it wasnt all her fault and i never told james and anne the complete story.
mum does support you with everything you do but she does not have to agree with it.
jess i love you and im always going to be here but i want you to do me a favour please think about what i have said really hard before you reply
lots of love
ps what do you dislike mum
I then called him up and asked him what this whole thing was about and long story short, he ended up crying and telling me how unfair im being to mum and how selfish i am because im affecting and hurting mor ethan just mum. He said he feel sresponsible as i was always bought up in the household environment which was ALWAYS so dramatic and there were alwayys arguments going on. i just said, " look, im really sorry if you feel like this is your fault, but with all respect, this actually hads nothing to do with you and mum has probably just been telling you some bullcrap story to get you on her side. so please, stay out of it" He just hung up. i dropped the phone and felt really short of breath and just fell over. and lay down for 10 minutes then cried heaps. He made it sound as if im tearing the whole family apart on the phone, and im getting really stressed about it. I feel sick this morning to think that i may possibly be doing so. i stayed up half the night crying, trying to think about the positive. I just dont know what hit me. Am i overthinking this whole situation? What am i doing wrong? What should i be doing now? Im just feeling so confused.