Good Morning Everyone,
I sit here this morning feeling hurt, upset and in tears as I allowed myself to let another persons words make me feel less then worthy.
I understand will never be able to stop people from making rude, insensitive, mean, nasty or negative remarks. I know I do have the choice as to how to react to such negativity. I can either get hooked into it and become upset, defensive or angry in response, or I can leave the emotion with the other person and stay calm, positive and in control.
My problems is I make it through the social event but wake up the next morning in tears as the hurt floods in and I have trouble just letting go. All I need right now is friends to remind me that I am OK and not a looser as that is what I feel like right now.
The person making the comments was my daughter-in-law and I refuse to react as I love my son and would never make an issue that would cause him to feel caught in the middle of my own problems.
Thanks and many hugs,
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