It official I have disappeared

New Topic Post Reply Printable Version
[ << Previous Thread | Next Thread >> ]

little zimmer
New Member


Date Joined Nov 2011
Total Posts : 5
   Posted 11/10/2011 7:18 PM (GMT -6)   

Well that is just what I have come to accept but it still sucks . Having plucked up the courage to not delete my post as I would have normaly, it has gone unnoticed . Truly can a person just go unnoticed. I felt maybe here I could find a kindred sprit or two but apparrently not,well not the likes of me anyway. Will somebody please just explain why I seem to be the person people just cant see . Ok I am tiny I will give you that but I have a big heart that is just a tiny bit aching . It took a shed load of courage to send my post as we Brits don't do this kinda thing, special if you live where I live . Stiff upper lip suffer you pain in silence but its ok to take it out on you kids. O well when your fellow bi- polars  can't really see a point to your exsistance it's time to smell the coffee and get that you truly have become invisable. Rushed home hopefully anticapating just a reply to say welcome fellow depressee but not one my 14 hour day of solid hard graft suddenly hurts . And I guess I will have upset you all now and thats pretty much the way it goes maybe it would be a good idea to get those happy pills , or get a job as a light house keeper  


getting by
Forum Moderator


Date Joined Sep 2007
Total Posts : 42431
   Posted 11/10/2011 7:55 PM (GMT -6)   
Little Zimmer,

What post are you talking about. What thread was it on? When I do to your profile, it only shows one post. But I thought I remembered answering a post from you on another person's thread. I could be wrong. I answer so many at times.

This is a very kind and compassionate group of members and we try to welcome everybody. Don't give up. You will get responses on this thread I am sure. IF you tagged on another persons thread, often it goes unnoticed. So starting your own thread is good.

Take care, I hope that you feel better.

Hugs, Karen
Moderator-Depression and fibromyalgia


fibromyalgia, Chronic fatigue, depression, allergies

Chartreux
Veteran Member


Date Joined Aug 2006
Total Posts : 9664
   Posted 11/10/2011 8:47 PM (GMT -6)   
Little Zimmer,
Where did you posts your thread, some of the forums here are a
little slower than others, but please know we do care, if I had seen it
I would've responded to you...usually I try to
respond to posts that don't have a lot of responses so they don't feel what you just felt,
so very sorry that happened...you are a worthy person and you are special and we do care...
Sure hope you give us a second chance....many well wishes and prayers being sent your ways.
No one is invisible....you do matter and I hope your feeling a little better tomorrow...
Keep Hope...
**********************************************
* So many dx's I could write a book* "It would be nice if we could use the edit button in real life"...
********>^..^<********>^..^<*******

stillme
Veteran Member


Date Joined Aug 2011
Total Posts : 556
   Posted 11/10/2011 9:00 PM (GMT -6)   
Hi Little Zimmer

Welcome to you. This is a very caring group. I don't remeber seeing your post either. Is it in with someone elses. No worries, we see it now. Keep posting.

bayoub2
Veteran Member


Date Joined Sep 2006
Total Posts : 2861
   Posted 11/10/2011 9:10 PM (GMT -6)   
I remember you little zimmer!! You were on someone else's thread and I said Hi

We are a good group and never knowingly not answer...remember we are depressed too and not on top of things-lol.

This group has ben a lifesaver for me and you too...keep posting..we do care.

Maggie
"We never realize how strong we are, until being strong is the only thing left"
Major Depressive Disorder, ptsd, fibromyalgia, chronic pain, l3/4, L4/5 gone, bursitis arthritis sciatica


welbutrin HBP meds abilify seroquel hydrocodone flexeril klonopin magnesium

bayoub2
Veteran Member


Date Joined Sep 2006
Total Posts : 2861
   Posted 11/10/2011 10:36 PM (GMT -6)   
Karen

I think little zimmer is totally correct...she was on Big sky's thread that actually disappeared

So sorry guys, that must be a little unsettling!!

Keep posting
Maggie
"We never realize how strong we are, until being strong is the only thing left"
Major Depressive Disorder, ptsd, fibromyalgia, chronic pain, l3/4, L4/5 gone, bursitis arthritis sciatica


welbutrin HBP meds abilify seroquel hydrocodone flexeril klonopin magnesium

Jim1969
Veteran Member


Date Joined Jul 2009
Total Posts : 2042
   Posted 11/10/2011 11:13 PM (GMT -6)   
Sometimes posts just vanish. No real reason to it, it is a glitch in the system that happens sometimes.

Even when posts do not disappear, if a new member makes some kind of introduction about themselves in someone else's post it can get overlooked because those who are reading that post are currently focused on that particular topic at the moment. This is a big part of the reason why we encourage new members to start their own post to say hi and tell us as what they feel comfortable telling us about themselves.
2 confirmed herniated lumbar discs. Spinal Arthritis. Spinal Stenosis, diabetic peripheral nueropathy.

theHTreturns...
Elite Member


Date Joined Mar 2009
Total Posts : 20186
   Posted 11/10/2011 11:39 PM (GMT -6)   
keep posting little zimmer. with much healing compassion 2 you. jamie
EMOTIONALLY UNSTABLE PERSONALITY DISORDER,

RAPID CYCLING BI-POLAR DISORDER

REMEMBER TO LOVE YOU. BE YOU AND BE TRUE.

Chartreux
Veteran Member


Date Joined Aug 2006
Total Posts : 9664
   Posted 11/11/2011 10:36 AM (GMT -6)   
Little Zimmer, please stay with us....We do care...
**********************************************
* So many dx's I could write a book* "It would be nice if we could use the edit button in real life"...
********>^..^<********>^..^<*******

little zimmer
New Member


Date Joined Nov 2011
Total Posts : 5
   Posted 11/11/2011 3:38 PM (GMT -6)   
 
Hi and sorry to have got it all wrong , I can see you are all very caring people and I apologise if I upset anybody . It was  just so hard to post at all, as I have had a very bad response recently to my honesty about being crazy as I am now  called . Before I told anybody the problems I had , I was just somebody they saw as a real good giggle,  bit away with the fairies, but very amusing . The fact that I would disappear for a few months then reappear was just what I did. Having told people why I am the good time girl then gone for awhile has met with a bad response. Where I live you just dont admit to anybody not even family that you have mental health issues. Its seen as self indulgent and something you choose so just be a good girl & snap out of it " turn that frown upside down" . So when I found you guys who know it aint all that simple I just wanted so badly for you all to say hey there we get how much it takes to face this demon .  So thank you for all your posts and  I hope you all have a good day tomorrow xx

stillme
Veteran Member


Date Joined Aug 2011
Total Posts : 556
   Posted 11/11/2011 4:06 PM (GMT -6)   
It sure isn't easy little zimmer. Right now I am having a terrible time. Sorry no one there can understand but we certainly do. Have a good evening.

little zimmer
New Member


Date Joined Nov 2011
Total Posts : 5
   Posted 11/11/2011 4:37 PM (GMT -6)   
Thanks stillme and sorry to hear you are not having a good time. It is a relief to have found a place that all those feelings, of dispair( what's the word I should use, pain,awareness,disillusion,anxiety ) are understood . So I wish you all the very best and hope tomorrow is a better day for us all xxx

bayoub2
Veteran Member


Date Joined Sep 2006
Total Posts : 2861
   Posted 11/11/2011 4:37 PM (GMT -6)   
welcome back

glad you posted again and yes, it is very nice to have people here who really DO know how you feel

Take care
Maggie
"We never realize how strong we are, until being strong is the only thing left"
Major Depressive Disorder, ptsd, fibromyalgia, chronic pain, l3/4, L4/5 gone, bursitis arthritis sciatica


welbutrin HBP meds seroquel hydrocodone magnesium potassium multi vit

getting by
Forum Moderator


Date Joined Sep 2007
Total Posts : 42431
   Posted 11/11/2011 6:12 PM (GMT -6)   
We all do understand. I can't understand where the thread went. But I guess it does happen sometime. I even checked back a page or two and nothing. But we got this one so that is good. I hope you all have a good evening. Time to watch the boob tube. lol... Get lost in it for awhile. Forget about my problems and be free. It works. Distractions, you know.

Take care all...

Talk to you again soon.

Hugs, Karen
Moderator-Depression and fibromyalgia


fibromyalgia, Chronic fatigue, depression, allergies

beagleman
Regular Member


Date Joined Nov 2011
Total Posts : 226
   Posted 11/13/2011 3:14 AM (GMT -6)   
Hello little zimmer,
I have noticed you and I only joined this site yesterday. This is a good site and keep posting, you will never go unoticed. I look forward to your next post, we all need support here.
New Topic Post Reply Printable Version
Forum Information
Currently it is Tuesday, June 19, 2018 4:48 AM (GMT -6)
There are a total of 2,973,236 posts in 326,185 threads.
View Active Threads


Who's Online
This forum has 160971 registered members. Please welcome our newest member, dio454597.
291 Guest(s), 3 Registered Member(s) are currently online.  Details
doug9801, Another UC Mum, Noggin2u2