We keep suggesting that you just back away for a while and let her
contact you when she feels that she can be compatible with you.
You're digging yourself a hole right now; leave her alone if you can, and find out from your doctor why you have such a strong, almost intrusive dependency--she will let you know if she wants you back in her life--unless she has too much pride, in which case, you should probably seek your friendships with more gentle and tolerant people.
There are other nice people in the world; try to meet some at social functions if you want a good friend who appreciates your friendship.
You're between a rock and a hard place right now; you've got to concentrate on you and your well-being for a while.
I wish you good luck with this whole problem.
Post Edited (It's Genetic) : 11/11/2011 12:43:30 PM (GMT-7)