PoPo, I think you might wish to see a psychiatrist just for your own
strengthening and encouragement. Even if he won't go with you, you need to know more so that it won't be so devastating to you.
Had he seen a psychiatrist initially, he might have learned that he is projecting his own inadequacies onto you and that, in fact, you may be responsible for only a minuscule portion of the problem. Frankly, it looks like a strong depression to me, but we aren't doctors and can't make a diagnosis.
Once you're into therapy, your husband may be more willing to go see one since you will show remarkably positive results and ability to handle your marriage more effectively. Your son also needs your strength and support.
I'm always a little nervous about
unconditional love, because there are conditions that make it almost imposssible to love one who is just baulking at every attempt to get help. He needs a good talking to by a man who is strong and qualified to point out to him what he's doing that is so unintelligent. Who knows? It could be something that will break in a psychiatric meeting that will remove all the pain both of you are suffering now.
My compassion goes out to you, and I hope you will act for your own benefit very soon. Keep us posted as you would like to for
your release of stress; the members are all here for you.
Take care of you first, please.
Post Edited (It's Genetic) : 11/28/2011 1:17:38 AM (GMT-7)