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IWishIDidntExist
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   Posted 12/3/2011 11:25 AM (GMT -6)   
Lately my best and only friend has been hanging out with another girl (which is fine!) and has been leaving me all by myself as the girl shes hanging out with and I don't get along. And since theyve been hanging out more, my best friend has changed, she's making bad decisions, and is getting into alot of fights. Today she called me a "*****" but is apologizing and saying she didn't mean it, this has happen before a couple times just different names such as "*****", and "****". It's happening more and more, I don't know what to do! We've been friends for so long, I don't want to lose her, but I want the name calling and other things that she's done to just stop.

getting by
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   Posted 12/3/2011 11:57 AM (GMT -6)   
You may have to ride this one out and see how it pans out. I don't think she would be talking to you like that except for being around the other girl.

But things in life change, we make new friends. If she is calling you names, it isn't cool. But try to take it with a grain of salt until you know what is going on for sure. This friendship may not last with this other person. I hope not. If you don't like her, she probably isn't very nice. And hopefully your friend will come back to you. Just don't put your life on hold over it. Continue doing things and meeting other people.

I hope that this works out for you.

Hugs, Karen
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sos007
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   Posted 12/3/2011 3:55 PM (GMT -6)   
Dear I wish....Welcome tu the hw forum. I think the advice that Karen gave you is right on target, I am not really sure if I can add anything. I would not accept being called names and would let your friend know this. Good luck and I will keep you in my prayers.


Bless you, Amy




Chronic pain(nerve), fibro, mild depression and a few others

getting by
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   Posted 12/3/2011 4:34 PM (GMT -6)   
Amy,

I just wondered if you knew that you could put your dx in your signature so that you don't have to type it everytime? If you would like to do that I can tell you how. Once I remember...lol...

Just wondering.

Hugs, Karen
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sos007
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   Posted 12/3/2011 5:08 PM (GMT -6)   
Karen...thanks I did figure it out...lol, it sure makes it easier.
Chronic Pain(nerve), fibro, mild depression and a few others

getting by
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   Posted 12/3/2011 6:39 PM (GMT -6)   
Good deal...

And you can always change or add to it if you need to.

Hugs, Karen
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sos007
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   Posted 12/3/2011 6:46 PM (GMT -6)   
Karen....it was funny that you sent that to me just as I was trying to figure it out. Too funny...I am finally figuring out my way around everything on this forum. Learn something new everyday..lol I also touched something that ignored a certain member and I felt so bad but, I figured out how to get them back...yah

Take care, Amy
Chronic Pain(nerve), fibro, mild depression and a few others

getting by
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   Posted 12/3/2011 7:36 PM (GMT -6)   
I learned about touching the wrong things. I got a touch screen, and I don't go near it with my hands. I had a fly land on my screen once and made my computer do something. I can't remember what it was now. lol...

Hope that you are having a good weekend.

Hugs. Karen
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kelsrox
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   Posted 12/4/2011 2:55 AM (GMT -6)   
Wish,
It feels like it wasn't long ago that I was your age, but it was a decade lol. As the others have said, friends do come and go. But i know its hard to let go of one especially if you feel she's the only one you have. If shes a true friend, you telling her that you don't like that, she should listen. If not, its honestly better to be alone than be around a person who doesnt respect you.

Good Luck!
Kelsey; 25 years old suffering from a slew: depression, anxiety, IBS, etc.
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