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Date Joined Dec 2011
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   Posted 12/4/2011 2:01 AM (GMT -6)   
I dont normally go to people for help i am the kind of person that helps everyone else and i get little of that returned to me, but right now i need help i am struggling to mantain focus on anything i cant eat or sleep and i know im depressed i have lost my 3 oldest children in my divorce and my curent relationship is abusive i have no friends or family close to go to for advice or anything and im so afraid that i just dont know what to do i cant breathe im just lost.

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Date Joined Nov 2011
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   Posted 12/4/2011 2:36 AM (GMT -6)   
Lost....I am so sorry for your position. Do you have younger as well. If you are in an abusive relationship you should start to make a safe get away plan. I think if you go online there will be instructions on how to get out of an abusive relationships safely. Is this abuse physical if it is you may need to call the police. Where does your family live? Could you go there until things settle. Keep posting there are a lot of great members who can be very helpful.

Take care, Amy turn idea eyes smhair turn

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Date Joined Mar 2009
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   Posted 12/4/2011 4:53 AM (GMT -6)   
amy is right. i would also consult with your dr. asap. you may require medication to help you, and or your dr. can on refer you to specialist services / counselling. we are here for you lost. it took guts to post, thus keep being strong ok. we care. with healing compassion, jamie



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   Posted 12/4/2011 5:07 AM (GMT -6)   
Welcome to the forum, it is great that you joined and started this thread.

I agree with Amy and Jamiee, you are possibly only going to feel better once you brake away from the abusive relationship you are in at the moment. You don't deserve to be abused, and I am asking you to have more selfworth and choose to remove yourself from danger. Once you are free from this fear you have been living with, you will have an internal shift within you, and you will have the focus and energy you need to grieve and process your divorce.

Best of luck to you, I am glad you asked for help, continue to let us know how you are getting on please

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   Posted 12/4/2011 9:27 AM (GMT -6)   
Welcome to the forum. I am glad that you posted here. I do agree with the others. Make a get away plan. You don't deserve to be abused. Nobody does. Get out and do it now. Get counseling to help you make this move.

I am sorry that this is short. Running late.

Hugs, Karen
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