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kelsrox
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   Posted 12/11/2011 1:32 PM (GMT -6)   
Anything happen this week that anyone feels the need to vent about? I'm all ears as I have lots of things I'd like to scream about. Lol.

My boss is a jerk! My uncle was being pulled off of life support, I asked for time to say goodbye to him before I went to work and he gave me 15 minutes after my scheduled time to say goodbye!!!

I have bronchitis bordering on pneumonia temp was 101 and they wouldn't let me go home!! GRRRR!
Kelsey; 25 year old lady suffering from a slew: Depression, Anxiety, Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS), Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS), etc.

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   Posted 12/11/2011 1:36 PM (GMT -6)   
Many many Sympathies on your uncle...so very sorry...
Sympathies and Prayers...
Sure hope your feeling better soon bronchitis and or pneumonia is very serious stuff
so I hope the antibotics are working for you and that your getting better soon...
Sure hope things turn around for you soon and that your on the mend...
Keep us posted as we do truly care...
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   Posted 12/11/2011 2:39 PM (GMT -6)   
Kelsey,

I am so sorry to hear about your uncle. But know he will be in a better place. I am glad you did get some time with him.

It sounds like you have a whole lot on your plate right now. I am glad that you vented about it and started this thread. Others can share this way. I hope that you feel better soon, and that your day goes by fast so that you can get home and get some rest. Take care of yourself.

Hugs, Karen
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kelsrox
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   Posted 12/11/2011 3:49 PM (GMT -6)   
Thanks yall! My uncle is in a better place. I'm more worried about my father. it was his brother. My brother (his oldest son) died last year. So he's going through a lot. I didn't start thos thread for sympathy, but I'll take it. You guys are so caring and I thank you all so much for it!
Kelsey; 25 year old lady suffering from a slew: Depression, Anxiety, Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS), Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS), etc.

justwant2bemeagain
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   Posted 12/11/2011 4:30 PM (GMT -6)   
Kelsey,

So sorry to hear about your uncle ! I hope that you feel better very soon, remember to take care of yourself first. I understand what your dad must be going through, I will keep him and your entire family in my thoughts and prayers. I have said this before, and I'll say it again.... God holds us in his arms and I know that he will never drop us !!! :-) Take Care

Michelle

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   Posted 12/11/2011 7:35 PM (GMT -6)   
my sincere condolences kelsey.

me. NEED SLLLLLLLLLLLLEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP!!!

AND QUALITY SLEEP. jamie
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kelsrox
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   Posted 12/11/2011 8:08 PM (GMT -6)   
Thanks Michelle! And Jamie, thank you. Someone else finally vented :) lol
Kelsey; 25 year old lady suffering from a slew: Depression, Anxiety, Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS), Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS), etc.

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   Posted 12/12/2011 8:09 AM (GMT -6)   
I would, but it is too early for me. Hey, that is a vent... I just got up to come here, got to get some coffee in me... Yawwwwnnnnnnnnn....................

Hugs, Karen
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Theshadow
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   Posted 12/13/2011 7:21 AM (GMT -6)   
My therapist is sick until January so I can't move forward on my therapy till then and it is frustrating as I am battling PTSD and chronic depression.

Theshadow
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   Posted 12/13/2011 7:23 AM (GMT -6)   
Oh and sorry about your uncle Kelsey. I just lost my grandmother in October so I know how you feel right now.

bayoub2
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   Posted 12/13/2011 7:28 AM (GMT -6)   
update on angry husband-

came home drunk, screamed and screamed at daughter, she didn't get upset just answered him calmly, say he is moving out, I told him good, he went ot he kitchen and kept ranting to himself how I let Katie "slide", that I was ruining her and I told him stop being a coward and tell me to my face, that his idead of parenting was to ignore all the problems and then blame it all on me...He really showed his butt

I have made mistakes but at least I am trying...I widh he would move out but there is no money for 2 households...he will not apologize this am cause he thinks he's right



more later thanks for the vent

maggie
"We never realize how strong we are, until being strong is the only thing left"
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getting by
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   Posted 12/13/2011 9:30 AM (GMT -6)   
I am sorry that hubby come home drunk. That must have been very frustrating for you. You can't argue with an angry drunk that is for sure. Hope he changes his attitude today.

Know we are thinking about you.

Hugs, Karen
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kelsrox
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   Posted 12/13/2011 11:08 AM (GMT -6)   
Theshadow, thanks for your vent. I know that sounds silly but it makes me feel better to see other ppl worried about self. Not to the extent of arrogance or utter selfishness, but at one point I was made to keep that anything that I said made things inconvenient or uncomfortable made me.. the B word. Family friendly :)

And Maggie, I wish I could give you a big hug! You sound like my mom. My dad isn't an alcoholic anymore (although part of me thinks you always are, youre just no longer drinking), but he is a.. butthole. Wow this is the hardest time I've ever had not trying to swear in a forum and it might still get edited lol. You are in a similar situation my mom has been in for years. She wanted to leave but there was no money. She's always spoken to me (well, since I was about 14) as a confidant. She was definitely still my mom, but she confided in me because he had her ashamed to bring her friends around. And he had everyone else fooled about what a "great guy" he was.

It was always more about him being a butt. Now, at 71- he's trying to hot the singles scene. What a @$%$#%!
Kelsey; 25 year old lady suffering from a slew: Depression, Anxiety, Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS), Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS), etc.

kelsrox
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   Posted 12/13/2011 11:11 AM (GMT -6)   
*hit the singles thing again.

And of course, if my mom let me do ANYTHING it was her fault. It's HER fault we don't go to church now. I know my mom understands that blame all too well.
Kelsey; 25 year old lady suffering from a slew: Depression, Anxiety, Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS), Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS), etc.

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   Posted 12/13/2011 11:18 AM (GMT -6)   
Hi Kelsrox,

You wont get editted for saying butthole. lol... I hope that things are working out for you. Keep trying, never give up. I hope that you are having a joyous holiday season.

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bayoub2
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   Posted 12/13/2011 11:51 AM (GMT -6)   
Thanks kelrox, your dad and my dh should move in together. Your Dad is not drinking but still seems like it, it is called a dry drunk...

Yes, I do confide in Katie, cause everyione else thinks he is "sooooo funny"...Katie asked me one time when she was younger "How come he treats everyone else so much nicer than us?"...he saves all that rage at home, altho there is no physical, his a** would be injail in a New York second with noone to bail him out-lol

I
We are doing the ignoring game today and that is fine=it is quiet, but not sure how long I can play that game-life is too short and I see ther damage it does to Katie

Will keep you posted on the continuing saga of As the Bayou Turns"

Maggie
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kelsrox
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   Posted 12/13/2011 12:17 PM (GMT -6)   
Karen, no not butthole but I was afraid I'd get into a rant of which I'd forget to edit myself lol! Maggie, my dad is a master at the ignoring game. But so is my mom. So he eventually just starts yelling again and she says ohh wait, we are talking now? Hi. How are you? That gives him the red a**. Do you know what that is? I know a lot of ppl who are like what's that??
Kelsey; 25 year old lady suffering from a slew: Depression, Anxiety, Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS), Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS), etc.

bayoub2
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   Posted 12/13/2011 1:07 PM (GMT -6)   
Hey Kelsy, I live in Bay st Louis, Mississippi. Wher do you live?

maggie
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greenbean885
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   Posted 12/13/2011 1:14 PM (GMT -6)   
I decided that I have a rant today also, it just came out of nowhere! I'm ticked as all get out that I dated someone who didn't open their mouth for two years and let me know when something bothered them. They just let it build inside them, to the point where I got treated like absolute garbage and I assume validated it in their minds because they were hurt. This is all from my assumptions, but even my therapist has noted that the ex has lots of resentment towards me. IDK what the deal is with people these days, but if you love someone, let them know when they are hurtful or make you uncomfortable!!! I think she is so selfish and doesn't love herself to not even let me know when something bothered her and then just to run. It isn't my fault, many of you have told me that. I am trying to believe it, as I saw her not let her friends or family know when they bothered her.... poor communication!!

I refrained from typing in all caps as to not break a rule and it was hard! My ex from before her made a comment to me last week that once he came to his senses about how poorly he treated me, everyone had told him to stay away from me, that I was very angry towards him. It's funny how we forget these things-- those nasty feelings. I get so frustrated when one selfish person treats others like trash. As much as it would bother me if ex was nice to our mutual friends and they all got along, it annoys me that she is also ugly to them!!!!

My sister is very similar in the mindset that she just "doesn't let things get to her" when they really DO get to her. So she acts like a horrible, miserable person until we coax it out of her and things can be normal again. Sometimes I'd just like to say to people, " FIND YOUR SELF WORTH, GET YOUR "THINGS" TOGETHER, GROW UP & QUIT PLAYING CHILDISH GAMES. You're only making it worse on yourself and those that love you ya twit!!"

Alright, breathing normal again. Frustrated yet another day with the selfishness and inconsiderate behavior of others.

Maggie, I'd deck your husband right after you. Don't mess with Southern Belles lol.

bayoub2
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   Posted 12/13/2011 1:33 PM (GMT -6)   
STEEL MAGNOLIAS!!!Con't even think abou it!!!LOL

Maggie
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   Posted 12/13/2011 6:37 PM (GMT -6)   
STUPID COMPUTERS. TYPING IN CAPS SO I CAN SEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! JAMIE
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kelsrox
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   Posted 12/13/2011 9:33 PM (GMT -6)   
Green, I thank you for your rant. She definitely isn't sounding like a "let it roll of your back" kinda gal. It's true, if you care for someone (or even if you care enough for yourself) you let ppl know when what they do bothers you.

Jamie, computers. ARGH!!

And one of my favorite lines from the movie "you know what they say, if you don't have anything nice to say, come sit by me" lol
Kelsey; 25 year old lady suffering from a slew: Depression, Anxiety, Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS), Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS), etc.

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   Posted 12/14/2011 12:38 AM (GMT -6)   
Kelsey...I am so sorry for your loss. \i will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Maggie...I am so sorry for what you and your daughter are dealing with.....I still believe good things are going to happen to you...You are a wonderful Mom and you will be rewarded. Your husband will wind up just like his bitter loney brothers.
Keep the faith...

Jamiee...I pray sleep will come to you soon.

Bless you all, Amy
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   Posted 12/14/2011 4:30 AM (GMT -6)   
You know, I have used money as an excuse for so long for not leaving...but waht is more important, money ot peace of mind.. Yes yes, there will be lots of ramen noodles and red beans and rice, but I have been poor before and it was not so bad...SO, I have been googling section * housing, not a dam thing here in our town, because everyone is as poor as I am-lol...I found a 2 br for 425 in a gated complex, brand new w/ pool etc...my single sister has mentioned many times she would help out so maybe this is doable, except my credit sux due to my dh bipolar spending...and if we can rent or sell house, I get lion's share so even better...I stsayed with him because he was dyingof cancer and I know this sounds awful, but now that that danger is past, I'm done...he will come crawling back and things will be good for awhile but he won't takemeds consistently so I'm over it...I think God gave me a purpose and it was not babysitting a whiny 62 year old...I have alot to give and I'm tired of him sucking it all out of me. Thanks for listening

Maggier
"We never realize how strong we are, until being strong is the only thing left"
Major Depressive Disorder, ptsd, fibromyalgia, chronic pain, l3/4, L4/5 gone, bursitis arthritis sciatica

cymbalta seroquel hydrocodone klonopin magnesium potassium

kelsrox
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   Posted 12/14/2011 4:42 AM (GMT -6)   
It doesn't sound awful, Maggie. You stayed with him out iof compassion, but if its not healthy for you or your girl, you have to let it go. I hope you can find a suitable place. I wish I could help!
Kelsey; 25 year old lady suffering from a slew: Depression, Anxiety, Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS), Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS), etc.
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