Need moral support. I saw the other man on my birthday, didn't do anything. Saw him Wed. We made love. I tried talking to him, but he didn't really want to talk. Well of course it's been driving me crazy, the not knowing how he really feels. I told him today, that he either had to hurt me or everybody was gonna get hurt. I needed to know the truth! He never did tell me what I wanted to hear, which was that he wasn't in love with me. But he did tell me that he had applied for a new job and if he got it, he would have to move. No mention of me going with him. I just feel so USED and unloveable! For YEARS I have felt something was WRONG with me, because he didn't want to be with me. He knew I loved him. Why would you make love to someone if you are planning on moving away and hurt them like that? I finally think I've had it, but I am SO VERY sad! I just feel terrible. Why did it take me so long to realize that he didn't love me at all? I still feel unloveable even though my husband does love me.