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RedQueenNerd
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   Posted 12/24/2011 4:42 PM (GMT -6)   
Hey
I've never done anything like this, but i just feel alone. Nothing in my family life is going well. neither is my school life. I used to want to be alone because you get more done and don't get in your way so i refused to join groups in lessons, but know i want to start going back to the old me and talk to people i haven't in ages but its weird going back to it. I guess i just need someone to talk to.

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   Posted 12/24/2011 5:40 PM (GMT -6)   
Hi there RedQeenNerd,

I am sorry that you are feeling so down. Is there anyway that you can find some positives in your life? Even if they are small? If we focus on the positives, the negatives get smaller in our minds. Even if it is just getting the dishes done, or taking a short walk. It can get to feel more optimistic as you go along.

You were very brave to post here. I am glad that you did. You have joined a wonderful forum, where everybody cares about eachother. There are some of us missing at the present time, maybe traveling or being with their families. But I will be around all weekend if you need somebody to talk to. I check the forum quite often.

Keep posting, let us know how you are doing.

Hugs, Karen
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Jim1969
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   Posted 12/24/2011 6:33 PM (GMT -6)   
Yep it is going to feel weird, but keep at it and soon that strange feeling is going to pass and while it may not end up being like old times thats ok because you are not the same person you were then and neither are they. Just start moving forward and developing new dynamics to your relationships.
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RedQueenNerd
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   Posted 12/25/2011 6:01 PM (GMT -6)   
Thanks, i guess i just feel alone a little because i cant talk to my closest friends because they don't understand I've tried in the past but they don't understand how i feel. its really good to know i always have people i can come and talk to on her. Hope your having a great Christmas, What you guys been up to? x

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   Posted 12/25/2011 7:41 PM (GMT -6)   
I had a wonderful Christmas day. I savored every bit of it too. I really enjoyed the day. I hope you all did too. Enjoy it the best you can. Life is really short. Enjoy it.

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Chartreux
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   Posted 12/25/2011 8:39 PM (GMT -6)   
Maybe seek out help with the counselors at your school and then maybe work from there...
Friends don't always get it, but they maybe also going
thru their own tough battles, so don't give up on your friends yet...
Hope you had a good Christmas and think of 2012 as something to look forward to, maybe reach out and make some new friends...
Best of wishes to you and do keep us posted as we do care....
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   Posted 12/26/2011 12:28 AM (GMT -6)   
hi there, had xmas with my neighbour, family displaced. know that we are here for you. with much healing compassion to you. jamie
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RedQueenNerd
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   Posted 12/27/2011 12:31 PM (GMT -6)   
Thanks All hope santa gave ya what you want you's deserve it.
Any ideas how to keep a relationship and a friendship at the same time without one blowing up, I've been going out wid this guy and its amazing but since i started going out my best friend has been really nasty to me were friends but when we fall out its because shes kicked off over something small or because shes back-stabbed me or blocked me out and gone off with other people. She's my best friend we used to talk about everything but the past couple year since my parents broke up and her mum had a stroke we haven't been nearly as close ive kept so much from her and i feel bad but i cant talk too her because when i do she tells people or tells her sister to big herself up. i spend equal amounts of time with both of them but shes doing things with other peole (which is fin) but rubbing my face in it or just staying away with me at school or saying she cant be bothered. i dont want to loose her but i cant keep up with her crap any more one minute she nice next shes not i just want to be friend with minor disagrements not with wars every time we fall out. its just one more thing to worry about.
Hope your all ok. x

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   Posted 12/27/2011 3:31 PM (GMT -6)   
I think it will work out with your friend. It sounds like she could be a little jealous of you. Which is probably normal, since you have a new boyfriend and all. Just let her know that you are there for her when she needs. These kinds of things blow over. I hope that you stay friends, but know that friends come and go in our lives. So don't be too upset about it.

Hugs, Karen
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