Getting through the day

New Topic Post Reply Printable Version
[ << Previous Thread | Next Thread >> ]

New Member

Date Joined Dec 2011
Total Posts : 14
   Posted 1/1/2012 9:18 PM (GMT -6)   
So hello everybody this is my first post on this site. I am a 19 almost 20 year old male, who has never had a girlfriend with only 2 friends that are both female (not enough attraction to be anything more). A lot of times I stay inside all day, and focus on writing my books (since I want to be a writer). Unforunately I don't have enough self confidence to try school again since I did so horrible when I graduated. So as I was saying a lot of times I watch whatever can make me laugh but sometimes that doesn't even seem to work. It takes a lot of strength to just do stuff around the house. The worst part is part of me thinks I am being a wuss and hates me for that. Anyone able to help me on this matter or knows how I feel.

Regular Member

Date Joined Nov 2011
Total Posts : 96
   Posted 1/2/2012 1:28 AM (GMT -6)   
Hey, I just wanted to say I know how you feel. I'm a 21 year old girl, living with my parents at the moment...I also love to write so I try to do some of that, and spend alot of time reading at home, but my depression has been so bad that it's hard for me to get out and even do simple things :/ Sorry for what you're going through. Have you seen a therapist or psychiatrist? That could be helpful. I'm also going to school but I take my classes online right now, because my anxiety and depression make it hard to go to class. Maybe it would be easier for you to try that?
Wishing you the best <3

Veteran Member

Date Joined Nov 2011
Total Posts : 615
   Posted 1/2/2012 2:24 AM (GMT -6)   
The Shadow...Welcome to HW forum...I am sorry you are feeling so down. I think Elf gave you some very wise advice, I do not have much to add. I hope you are feeling better soon.

Take care, Amy
Chronic Pain(nerve), fibro, mild depression and a few others

getting by
Forum Moderator

Date Joined Sep 2007
Total Posts : 42218
   Posted 1/2/2012 7:21 AM (GMT -6)   
If you went back to school, I think you would do well. You would take it more serious and be able to take classes that interest you. Keep writing. It is a good thing to do.

Things are going to get better. Mark my words on that. I hope that you are having a good day today.

Keep posting.

Hugs, Karen
Moderator-Depression and fibromyalgia

fibromyalgia, Chronic fatigue, depression, allergies
New Topic Post Reply Printable Version
Forum Information
Currently it is Saturday, March 24, 2018 8:10 AM (GMT -6)
There are a total of 2,943,415 posts in 322,951 threads.
View Active Threads

Who's Online
This forum has 161321 registered members. Please welcome our newest member, Pebble78.
302 Guest(s), 5 Registered Member(s) are currently online.  Details
TheProstateCancerCoach, Wazr57, 142, mr bill, NotQuiteAntonio