My wife and I have been married for 20 years, she is a great wife and excellent mother, we always got along perfect. One day she said something has changed and did not what is was.
I thought for sure it was over, after talking some more she said she was stressed and depressed, we went to the doctor and started some counseling. I also found out she was talking to a male friend from high school on facebook that really set me off, she said she need some she could talk to, the more I question her more and more and I drove her away for me, so she turned to him to talk to instead of me, lucky for me he works in Asia, two weeks ago she admitted she seen him when he came in the states to visit his daughter, now I am rely freaking out.
She said she just need to talk to someone and they were just friends its not what you think, I believe her and said ok go ahead and talk to him if you need to, I was such an ass when this was going on. I do not blame her for talking to him ,but put the shoe on the other foot and see how you would feel. She said she loves me, but did not admit she was in love with me.
Her depression is driving me nuts I miss my wife and the affection I use to get, not to mention no sex.
Its been about 60 day of this crap, I under stand the situation a lot better now, been helping around the house cooking and cleaning, helping with the children and working my ass of at work. I know see needs her space right now, but what about me, how long does this last. I am going nuts missing the wife I married.
She been on Celexa now for a week, I hear it may take 6 weeks before she feels the full effect.
My question is how should I treat her? I am always calling her when I am at work and when we are home I am kissing her ass, I just love her so much.