hi elf, i too agree, there are so many therapist's out there, maybe it's time to move on.
i have problems with letting out anger. i tend to hold it in, alot like my dad was.
but what to do with it??? if u figure it out maybe u can let me know. ok???
meanwhile don't be so hard on urself. relationships work only if both are working together. wether it's hetro, metro, homo, gay, lesbian, whatever you can't put a gender on the answer.
hang in there, be kind to urself.