Hello Aaron, I am probably the opposite end of the scale to yourself, I tend to feel everything. Ok the bad points when I am sad, depressed, it is really abysmal. I see the homeless and really feel sad, to have empathy really means you feel for people. But with the bad you have the good, to feel love, it is so strong, you feel so happy, I feel privilidged that I can feel so strong and I would never give up my feelings.
I suspect because you are on this forum you really have deep feelings, you are searching for answers, and repressing some of your feelings. If you were truly uncaring you would not be searching for answers. I never got a girlfriend untill 2 weeks ago, I am 49, in my case i repressed a lot of my feelings until I was so depressed my life was not worth living. Once I allowed my self to feel everything I knew I was missing friendships, relationship and many other social activities, now i am recovering and not repressing my feelings. Keep searching and you will find answers.