Some people handle their depression better than others and it sounds like you handle yours better. That doesn't necessarily make your friend a bad person, she just doesn't handle it well and isn't as nurturing and understanding as you are. It seems like you can take her at face value and still remain friends. If you don't like it, talk to her about it and tell her you think the friendship is one sided, at the risk of losing a friend though. I don't know if you really want to do that. That is the way that I see it. It is up to you to make the decision. Decide if it is really worth discussing.
Maybe you should see a doctor to, or a counselor if you feel depressed. It really helps to have somebody to support you.
Moderator-Depression and fibromyalgia
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