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RedQueenNerd
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   Posted 3/3/2012 5:07 PM (GMT -6)   
So my friend was having an argument with this other girl and she was talking to her while i was there and i seen the chat history and she said she was mentally ill and i asked her and she said she was deppressed and stressed and stff and shes supposed to be my best friend and she tells othe people first, i havent been compleatly straight with her but i havent exactly gone round telling other people. i could she why she would be shes gone through alot in the last 2 years but she always makes people feel guilty for her shes still got a bloody family. my problems started a long time ago ive basicly been deppressed since i was 6 but the past 3- 4 years its been worse but i dont complain ive tried to talk to her before a while ago and she didnt listen she was like lol yer right more recently i found out stuff about my family and i decided to tell her and a bout one of the main factors of my deppression and she was like ok she didnt even act like she cared. i just dont see why its fair that suddenly she says oh im deppressed and her dad takes her to a doctor and probally started worrying bout her even though he dont need the extra stress while ive suffered in silence for years and i have to feel like this trapped inside a life that has no meaning for me :'(

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   Posted 3/3/2012 5:32 PM (GMT -6)   
Some people handle their depression better than others and it sounds like you handle yours better. That doesn't necessarily make your friend a bad person, she just doesn't handle it well and isn't as nurturing and understanding as you are. It seems like you can take her at face value and still remain friends. If you don't like it, talk to her about it and tell her you think the friendship is one sided, at the risk of losing a friend though. I don't know if you really want to do that. That is the way that I see it. It is up to you to make the decision. Decide if it is really worth discussing.

Maybe you should see a doctor to, or a counselor if you feel depressed. It really helps to have somebody to support you.

Hugs, Karen
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RedQueenNerd
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   Posted 3/4/2012 2:39 AM (GMT -6)   
I want to but I can't I can't tell anyone. It's a sign of weakness and i have to bestrong x
Bailey-Anne, Hugs To you

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   Posted 3/4/2012 7:22 AM (GMT -6)   
If it is a sign of weekness, are you saying we are all weak? We all go to psychologist and psychiatrist. You need to think before you speak. I know you don't mean it that way, but read it again and see how it come out.

You are not weak for seeing a doctor or counselor. And you are not being strong expecting her to be there like you were. She is dealing with it the best she can. Not all of us can handle deperssion or suffer on the same degree either. She may be suffering more than you are and you don't know it.

Have patience with yourself and others.

Hugs, Karen
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RedQueenNerd
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   Posted 3/5/2012 4:51 AM (GMT -6)   
I know ok sorry I didn't mean it Like that it makes me feel weak and I dont like feeling like that in my life my family I have to be strong pervert thing will fall apart I can't tell ajy one because they wont understand and my parents have enough to deal with. I have felt alone and forgotten since I was 6 do o cut myself off from anything social or involved intetaction. And when o was 6 my parents separated for the first tome and I. Felt it wad my fault I felt unloved and excluded and know my dad told me something and its happening all over again I'm loseing control and I don't know what to do
Bailey-Anne, Hugs To you

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   Posted 3/5/2012 7:08 AM (GMT -6)   
Hi Bailey-Ann,

Your parents divorce is in no way your fault. they had things that they couldn't work out. Please talk to your doctor or a counselor about your feelings. We all do and it reallly helps. Posting here helps too. We are all here for you. Learn to open up slowly to people you trust. I know it is hard to find somebody to trust not to ridicule you. But there are good people out there. And the bad people aren't worth it. Keep trying.

Keep posting.

Hugs, Karen
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