First of all, you have to take care of you. Nobody else will. That is just a part of life. You need to do somethings for yourself. Buy some new clothes that fit. Start walking. It is really good exercise and it makes you feel good not only physically, but emotionally too. So start out slow. Maybe even just five minutes a day until you can go farther. It would rally help you. Do you go to any counseling, I can't remember? I would suggest that you start if you aren't already.
Secondly, some people just want to be left alone when they are sick. They don't want chicken soup or anybody around. Your boyfriend may be one of those type of people. You felt better as the day went on. Apparently he didn't. So I would give him some time to feel better and not get upset because he doesn't want you to come over. When I am sick, I just want to sleep. I can't entertain the thought of other people coming over. So I can understand that part of him. Don't let it hurt you. Don't feel bad about it. You offered but he declined. It is what it is.
I hope your depression lifts soon and that you feel better. I would just kick back and watch a movie by yourself tonight and hopefully he will feel better tomorrow.
Keep posting, and please do something nice for yourself.
Moderator-Depression and fibromyalgia
fibromyalgia, Chronic fatigue, depression, allergies