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Date Joined May 2012
Total Posts : 1
   Posted 5/6/2012 2:52 AM (GMT -6)   
Hi, lately I feel as though everything is falling apart.
I have recently found out I will have to have a hysterectomy
Due to bad pain, lots of fibroids and restricted blood flow.
Since I have found this out it seems a though my partner
Is distancing himself from me:( I'm on hormone tablets so
I always feel fat and my skin is bad right now I feel so
Down on myself. I cannot talk to anyone as any body I have
In my life always wants something from me or has their own
Problems. I tried talking to my partner and telling him I need
Him now more then ever and he just got mad and said he
Doesn't know about girl stuff and I should talk to someone who
Does. I don't leave the house unless Im going to work. I have
Been crying non stop and my partner still won't speak to me or
Even sleep in the same room. I don't know what to do anymore

getting by
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Date Joined Sep 2007
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   Posted 5/6/2012 6:39 AM (GMT -6)   
Hi Storm,

Welcome to the forum. I just read your post and was wondering if you are seeing any counselor for support??? I think it would really help you to have extra support. We can help you some here, but a professional would help a lot more.

I know the feeling of people wanting things from you. You need to change friends to people who don't awnt things from you all the time. Friendships go both ways...

I hope that you feel better soon. I am glad that you have joined us. Keep posting and know that we all care. The forum is a little slow on weekends. But picks up during the week.

Take care,

Hugs, Karen
Moderator-Depression and fibromyalgia

fibromyalgia, Chronic fatigue, depression, allergies

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Date Joined May 2012
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   Posted 5/8/2012 8:57 PM (GMT -6)   
I agree I would see a counselor find a good one, there's hope, don't give up, as far as your partner men don't know how to respond, best bet is find a female counselor.
Take care
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