at my ropes end

New Topic Post Reply Printable Version
[ << Previous Thread | Next Thread >> ]

Regular Member

Date Joined Apr 2012
Total Posts : 30
   Posted 5/15/2012 3:17 AM (GMT -6)   
confused confused confused HE'S BAAAAAACCCCCKKKKK! He wouldn't even leave. I thought he had, but he just walked around for about 2 hours. By then I thought I was safe and unlocked the door. Stupid me. And yet again, he's driving me insane. I have sent out some hints to his daughter, and hopefully she will catch on. Now get this, it's a good one! Last night, he accused me of turning off his phone, because it wasn't ringing. I was working in the kitchen, he was, (of course) sitting in the living room at the time. I said where's your phone? On the counter. Ok, I said, mine is in my hand. I'm going to call you, and I'm not going to move from this chair. Paying attention, I asked him. So I dial his number, the phone rings, and I ACTUALLY stayed calm. Just shook my head, and went to bed on the couch. Is he getting dementia? Cuz I ain't going for that. Been there, done that, with my mom. No Way.

Desperate in DSM

getting by
Forum Moderator

Date Joined Sep 2007
Total Posts : 42612
   Posted 5/15/2012 7:38 AM (GMT -6)   
Call the police if you want him out. He can't just move back in unless you let him...

You really need to do something to make things clear to him...

Hugs, Karen
Moderator-Depression and fibromyalgia

fibromyalgia, Chronic fatigue, depression, allergies

It's Genetic
Veteran Member

Date Joined Mar 2010
Total Posts : 1540
   Posted 5/15/2012 10:12 AM (GMT -6)   
Possibly dementia or paranoia; anyway, he's in need of real counseling and medication. He's virtually helpless at this point.

We're not doctors and can't diagnose, but we can tell you that the symptoms he's displaying resemble those of paranoia. He needs a thorough psychiatric examination and medication.

Is he willing to listen to you in regard to that?

It's Genetic

Regular Member

Date Joined Apr 2012
Total Posts : 30
   Posted 5/16/2012 2:23 AM (GMT -6)   
OH you MUST be kidding! I wish. I am just hoping his daughter will see some of this. Wish me luck

Regular Member

Date Joined Mar 2012
Total Posts : 350
   Posted 5/16/2012 12:31 PM (GMT -6)   
Hi, may I ask the mans age? Dose he take any medication you are aware of. My first thought is that he is just another old Phart causing trouble. I have experienced that with my dad. We didnt have PCs back then to do a search on anything. Soon afterwords we found out he had ignored symptoms of illness. He had stage 4 NH Lymphoma. Diagnosed in September, died following april. I miss him so much. We understand now that he was in denial and not thinking right and drinking and smoking heavily. He knew he was dying so he did whatever he wanted and hid the huge black bruisd marks on his arms and chest and belly, and legs. He was spitting blood when we finely found out. He refused any aggressive treatment. He did have radiation on his upper chest. He was over radiated and it burned his esophfogus. He was acting so different my sisters and I were so concerned for our mother. We wqnted her to leave. She would not, and she and I were with him when the end came. Medicine makes people do some crazy things. If this man is not a relative and a trouble maker, then the police can remove him. If he has family he needs to go to them. Good luck to you. We have never met on here. Im sorry about going on and on. I want to fix everything!
I am 61 years young. I have neuropathy in both feet and hands. I have spinal stenosis and arthritis in my back. I am bipolar and with panic attacks. I cannot walk. I choose to stay home all the time. I love living in the country. Its very peaceful.

Regular Member

Date Joined Apr 2012
Total Posts : 30
   Posted 5/19/2012 1:22 AM (GMT -6)   
Neurothapy: I would love to talk to you one on one. Did the Drs tell you what caused the neurothapy? How did it start? I don't know if you would be interested in emailing individually to each other, but if so, I would like to.


Living Well
Veteran Member

Date Joined Feb 2011
Total Posts : 1276
   Posted 5/19/2012 2:09 AM (GMT -6)   
who is this person to you cammy?
New Topic Post Reply Printable Version
Forum Information
Currently it is Monday, September 24, 2018 10:05 AM (GMT -6)
There are a total of 3,006,047 posts in 329,295 threads.
View Active Threads

Who's Online
This forum has 161820 registered members. Please welcome our newest member, Dogsitter2.
320 Guest(s), 7 Registered Member(s) are currently online.  Details
HeartsinPain, sandyfeet, Sandy1222, Szabo246, ltc1225, Leah2013, iPoop